The older you get the harder is to feel hinky* when someone claims to be kinky  - & to know the truth that exists "out there" - wanting to make you feel out of the norm perhaps special almost chosen: Locked in your own values. But when you only exist locked in(your own values) You ought to know that there are those that can pick a lock and once they do show you how it is done "set you free" - to do what you want You then rely on them rely on their knowledge and guidance Instead of ah I can't tell you more because even freedom has its limits and freedom is not something that exists outside us-you-me but it is Boundless;)

*slang: 1.nervous jittery 2.suspicious