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- basically the same complaint over, I realize... I'm just not getting over it, I guess... sorry for the redundancy, just trying to get this out of my system...
my weekly 3 places : grocery store, doctor's appointment (between 3 health professionals), work...
Not once through the process
Did I ever get the impression
That my feelings about having
To make such a request of them
And about being confronted to
A condition that is slowly taking
Away my ability to move around
Have been considered in any way.
Or that the reality of my need
To carefully organize my life
In terms of the places I can go,
And how many I can physically
Do in a week, how adding one
More is problematic physically,
And the reason I had to submit a
Request for an accommodation.
I say this 'cause although they did
In the end accept my request, they
Also want to reevaluate in 6 months,
Meaning I will have to go see the
Doctor again to get a medical note
To continue supporting my 'privilege'
Of going to the office once a week
And managing my condition as needed.
I'm finding this somewhat humiliating.
Since there's no prospect of getting better,
This second note will be the same as first.
So to me, having to go see the doctor again
For no apparent reason feels disheartening.
It's having to go somewhere, and hurt for it,
All for the purpose of getting the same info,
Which feels like a purposeless action to do.
From my perspective, I'm being forced
To do the activity which is the cause
Of my request in the first place, to prove
The accommodation is still reasonable.
Even though the context of this situation
Is about a degenerative condition that
Can never see any improvement, so I'm
Not catching why they're requiring this.
Two years ago I could manage 5 to 6
Places to go in a week, but lately, I can
Barely manage the 3 I now do each week.
Adding another one is a painful prospect;
I have the feeling they just don't get it.
They can't picture what it's like to have
To organize your movements so closely.
So to me, the whole process is just awful,
And it really doesn't leave me feeling uplifted,
Almost regret having made the request now.
Diary by IB M
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Written on 2024-09-14 at 19:36
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