A true friend is not the one that spends time with you The one that creates memories(what will be left of "us" one day in the future)the one that creates memories together with you and therefore feels closer to you feels more keen to spend more time with "you"

The one that pays self-serving attention to you The one that seeks the refuge of your presence The one that constantly carries a pedestal and a halo under his/her arm

A true friend is the one that speaks about us without you in mind (and the consequences of your judgment) The one that speaks about us and him/herself as an an undivided part of the whole as if you are what he/she feels she/he & you are becoming while speaking thinking about us & her/himself

The one that feels safe enough to be left alone with him/herself Without pointing at the ticking clock urging(silence speaks) you to do what you "ought" to (in the I did my part NOW do your part or else you are "dead to me" . . . or: My words are a loan I am a lender time to pay me back!) 

The one that feels genuinely appreciative (connected) in the knowledge of your presence - of a cyber stranger but still not a stranger

We the cyber strangers are the ones that give you the time you need (in our fictive - non fictive presence) and when the time comes we will lend our eyes and feel you(to the extend each of us can)

I will feel at ease in the notion of your sensed presence 

As always

Thank you