Being proactive instead of experiencing the consequences
Doesn't mean that you never experienced the consequences
Even if it happen to someone else.

Who am I and why do I talk to you?

I create a reality, a reality that can become part of someone's worldview. Maybe you don't think that you are a bully and you don't need to feel bad about yourself while reading this letter. That is not my intention.

For example you might know(from others)about the things I have done or observed me or perhaps you have a tailor-made opinion for people like me and you don't need to know more when you feel that I somehow fit in the category you place me in your head but you don't know who I am do you feel that I do? Do I know who you are 24/7? Regardless don't dismiss my letter to you yet, please keep reading.

Even though to know how you feel about someone's action doesn't qualify you to have an opinion about who they are. Become aware though that you actually get a chance to understand who you will become when you execute the very same action you are judging and perhaps choose to become a better person make the world a better place to live in and who knows? You might unintentionally  become what others long for.

My beloved stranger as one stranger to another feel free to be who you are around me but don't bully me not because I warn you or because you hurt my feelings but because you will waste your precious time and I want you to grow stronger instead of being trapped while we interact while we interact or when you think of me I want you to feel safe being yourself regardless how it might look(to others).

 Always with love
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