- for my douce moitié... 

//   About a life without compared to the opposite

if ($you == 0  OR  $you_and_me  !=  1) {

      $result = trim($life_makes_sense);
      $furthermore = $i_fall_apart;

} else {

      $best_world = TRUE;
      $luckiest_girl_on_planet = TRUE;

}

'Equal' (==)

Not equal (!=)