shells
As long as you are at peace with yourself your decision will be the right one.
2024-10-04

alarian
if you don't go then you'll be haunted by his absence
if you go then you'll be sad but in peace with yourself

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2024-10-04

mvvenkataraman
I was excellently running at age 16,
Instead of encouraging me gladly,
My father started to badly discourage,
We brothers loved father's absence,
As he was a strange man with anger,
He was brought up in that way,
If he had not interfered in my goal,
I would have been surely an Olympian,
As I had massive power in my body,
He regretted during his later years,,
And would tell my mom his sorrow,
He mainly felt that my life was spoiled,
I never hated him, or disrespected him,
When he had stroke and was bed-ridden,
Only my mother and brother took care,
One day I went there and gave strokes
To his head with love and affection,
And I came home by leaving my dad,
Watchman of father's flat came home
And told that father had passed away,
Maybe my stroking his head gave relief,
By pacifying his soul to take him to Sky !
2024-10-04

Uncle Meridian
Isabelle, I'm holding a compassionate heart-space for you and for your concerns.
2024-10-04

Alan J Ripley
It's a very difficult one considering your past
As long as you haven't any regrets
After his passing. You can choose your friends
Unfortunately your stuck with your family
2024-10-04

arquious
Each case is unique and this is equally difficult. With my late father it was a gradual reconnecting over the span of the last decade. And although we only met once in that time - to 'present' his grandchildren, we had since began to reacquaint with one another via social media until his passing. Not the best of scenarios but gave us, I believe, some closure and a laurel leaf of sorts. Hope and pray that you have your best avenue in these trying times.
2024-10-04